我很好(I’m fine)——欧美人们最常说的谎话

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当你在这个网站上投票时，它要求你解释为什么。我的原因？好吧，几年前，我的一个朋友表现得有点不一样。她不再来和我们一起玩了，她改变了自己的风格。太多的事情都说不清了。她开始只穿连帽衫和长袖t恤。那时候我开始怀疑了。每天，我会问她，她还好吗？答案总是一样的，“我很好。”有一天，她告诉我她很好，我就去她家检查她的手腕、臀部和腿，看看她是否在割伤。我到她家时，她的门没有锁。我走到她的房间，看到她床上有张纸条。我听到浴室里有水，然后就走了发现她在浴缸里，满身是血，手腕被割伤。她准时赶到医院。幸运的是，她问我怎么知道的，我只是告诉她“我不好。”而且我和她说了多年的谎。几个月后她自杀了。但有一件事让我……更多

When you vote on this site, it asks you to explain why. My reason? Well, a few years ago, a friend of mine was acting a little different. She had stopped coming to hang out with us, she had changed her style. Too many things to name. She started to only ever wear hoodies and long-sleeved t-shirts. That's when I became really suspicious. Everyday, I would ask her was she okay. It was always the same answer, 'I'm Fine.' One day, I was done with her telling me she's fine so I went to her house to check her wrists, hips and legs to see if she was cutting. I got to her house and her door was unlocked. I walked up to her room and saw a note on her bed. I heard water in the bathroom and found her in the bathtub with bloody-water and slit wrists. She got to the hospital on time. Luckily. She asked me how did I know and I just told her 'I'm not okay.' and that I have been telling the same lie as her for years. She ended up killing herself a few months later. But the one thing that keeps me ... more

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我有一个朋友，但最近他很少来学校，我想他每4个星期来一次，当周末来临时，他只是有一段时间不回来。他说他很好，但我不知道我该怎么做，因为他显然身体不好。甚至有传言说他一直假装抑郁想退学。我真的不知道我该怎么做，我不知道我该打电话给他，和他的一些朋友谈谈，等到他回来好好谈谈，还是就放手。最近我见到他时，我注意到他表现得有多不一样，我曾经觉得我们有很强的联系，但这些天仅仅在他身边就感觉很尴尬。我不知道我该怎么做，是否该做点什么，甚至不知道是否值得让他留在我的生活中

I have a friend, but lately he hasn't been coming to school much, I'd say he comes for about a week once every 4 weeks, and when the weekend comes around, he just doesn't come back for a while. He says that he's fine, but I don't know what I should do, since he clearly isn't fine. There has even been rumour that he has been faking depression to get out of school. I really don't know what I should do, I don't know whether I should call him, talk to some of his friends, wait until he comes back an have a proper talk or just let it go. And lately when I have been seeing him, I've been noticing how differently he has been acting, and I used to feel that we had a strong connection, but these days just being around him feels awkward. I have no idea what I should do, if I should do something, or even if it's worth keeping him in my life...

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我很好，但我不是真的很好，如果有人不能看着你的眼睛告诉你他们的好，他们不好只是说-阿比泰希莱德

I'm fine, but I'm not really fine, if someone can't look you in the eye tell you their fine, they are not fine (Just saying) - abbythecheerleader

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这绝对是第一位。当你情绪低落，脾气暴躁，周围的人都能从你的脸上看出这一点，但他们却来问你：“你还好吧？”你就会自然而然地说：“我很好。”因为1你的问题太复杂了，他们无法理解；2你太累了，因为你假装自己很好，无法向他们解释你的问题

This is definitely number 1. It is really depressing when you're feeling down and grumpy and everyone around you can see that from your face yet they come and ask you, "Are you okay? " and you just automatically say, "I'm fine." because (1) your problem is way too complicated for them to understand and (2) you're way too exhausted from pretending you're just fine to explain your problem to them.

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最近我父母离婚了，我爸爸杀了我的兄弟，我必须和我的朋友住在一起。我只有两天的时间在街上。我有两个朋友和一个试图让我感觉良好的朋友。我曾经尝试过4次夺去我的生命，而我只有12岁，我感到绝望。我只想结束这一切，但我怎样才能不伤害我唯一真正的朋友。她真的关心我。我有一把刀看起来它能帮我完成任务，但我是我唯一真正的朋友，所以如果我去，她会：

recentally my parents got divorced,my dad killed my brothers,and I have to live with my friend I have only 2 more days here then I'm on the streets.I have two friends and one that trys to make me feels ok.I have tried taking my life 4 times before and I'm only 12 I feel hopeless.I just want to end it but how do I without upsetting my only true friend.she actually cares about me.I have a knife that looks like it would do the job of finishing me but I'm my only true friends friend so if I go she will to :(

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说实话。这是真的。大多数时候人们说“我很好”，其实他们不是。我以前也说过这个谎。当我在体育课上摔断了脚，疼得很厉害，所以我整天蹒跚地说“我没事的！”对所有问我的人。没有人相信我。我总是在伤心或其他什么时候说“我很好”。我尽量不示弱，不哭。为了达到这个目的，我捂着脸以防万一。然后掐自己或什么东西

Honestly..this is true... most of the time people say '" I'm Fine" when they really aren't. I've actually told this lie before. When I broke my foot in P.E.. it hurt a lot so I was hobbling around al day repeating ' I'll be fine! ' to everyone that asked. nobody believed me. I always say 'i'm fine' when I'm sad or something. I try not to show weakness. to not cry. to accomplish this I cover my face just in case I do. then pinch myself or somethin.

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是的，就像有人问“你好吗？”当你的头骨骨折或者发烧的时候你会说“我很好”。这个谎言很常见。—宇宙

Yeah like when someone asks "How are you? " and you say "i'm fine" when you fractured a skull or something or you have a really bad fever. This lie is really common. - cosmo

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不管有多少人问我还好吗？…答案永远是我很好，即使我很沮丧。但这总比人们同情我好…抑郁的少年-

No matter how many people ask me if I'm okay?... the answer will always be I'm fine even though I might be depressed as hell..but it's better than people thinking pity of me...-depressed teenager-

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我一直这么说，但当别人说的时候，我深深地看着他们的眼睛说：“哥们，抑郁是人类的，尤其是在这个世界上。”

I say this one all the time, but when others say it I look deeply into their eyes an say "dude, its human to be depressed, especially in this world."

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在这一点上，我敢肯定，如果你不说你很好，你的朋友会担心，这会成为一场关于谁的病情更糟的竞赛，或者人们会认为你在夸大/撒谎

At this point I'm fairly sure if you don't say you're fine a) your friends will worry b) it will become some kind of contest on who has it worse or c) people will think you're exaggerating/lying.