失去一个孩子(Lose a Child)——欧美生活中最糟糕的十件事

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我29岁的时候在一场车祸中失去了两个分别3岁和5岁的孩子和8岁的妻子。那是5年前的事了。我想我现在生活中最艰难的部分是。当你有了孩子，你会对你的人生成就感到真正的意义和一种新的自豪感。我记得那种感觉。在最初的2到3年里，我有这种感觉我不知道自己该怎么办，我的人生该往何处去我想就像电影《七磅重》中的威尔·史密斯一样，但我不想像电影里的他那样死去。我是怎么想的。我就像一个长寿的老人，在那里住了很长一段时间，但这一切都发生在我20多岁的时候，所以我想情况不一样了。它糟透了，但总要发生在生活中的某个人身上。这样就更好了。我最为我父母感到难过。我想对他们来说是最难的。一想到那孩子每天醒来，每天都会有不同的生活

I lost my 2 kids ages 3 and 5 and my wife of 8 years in a car accident when I was 29. That was 5 years ago now. I think the hardest part of my life now is.. When you have kids you feel a true meaning to your life accomplishments and a new kind of pride. I remember what that felt like. For the first 2 to 3 years I had this feeling of that I didn't know what to do with my self and where to go with my life I guess like will smith in the movie Seven Pounds but I didn't want to die like him in the movie. how I take it is. I'm just like an old person that lives to long and out lives there family but this all happen to me when I was in my late 20's so I guess its not the same. It sucks but has to happen to someone in life... there you go that's better. I feel bad for my parents most of all. Its hardest on them I think. The thought of there kid wakening up everyday to such a different life day after day.

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悲伤的故事：让我像一只疯狂的海豚一样哭泣

Sad story :( makes me want to cry like a crazy dolphin :( - CerealGuy

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我很抱歉，伙计。真是太伤心了。这让我想哭一场

I'm sorry man. That's pretty sad. This makes me want to cry a bit.

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我很抱歉问你妻子8岁了吗？-匿名小妞

I'm sorry to ask but does that say that your wife was 8 years old? - AnonymousChick

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我有一对两岁的双胞胎。我在网上读到一篇关于一个2岁小女孩被父母杀害的文章。每次我读到这样的故事，我哭着向上帝祈祷，我的孩子永远不会受到伤害。读了这篇文章后，我想失去一个孩子一定是这辈子发生在任何人身上的最糟糕的事情，这就是我在这篇网站上发表的文章的原因，我无法想象你所承受的痛苦。难以形容的，无情的痛苦。一个人要经历那么多痛苦，我知道必须有正义。生活真的会那么不公平吗？我希望，祈祷，并真诚地相信，一旦生命结束，所有这些令人惊叹的坚强的父母将与他们的天使团聚。这一生是如此的艰难，对别人来说更艰难，对最坚强的灵魂来说也是最艰难的

I have twins aged 2 years old. I read an article on the internet about the murder of a 2 year old little girl, her parents killed her. every time I read stories like this, I cry and pray to god that no harm ever reaches my children. After reading the article I thought losing a child must be the worst possible thing to happen to anyone in this life and that's how I ended up on this websites article. To all the parents who have lost your dear little angels, I can't begin to imagine the pain you have endured. Unspeakable, unforgiving pain. For a human to go through that much pain I know there has to be justice. Can life really be that unfair? I hope and pray and truly believe that all those amazing strong parents will be reunited with their angels once this life is over. This life is so hard, harder for others and hardest for the strongest souls.

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我爱我的父母，但他们知道他们有一个生命。那些把父母放在第一位的人从来没有经历过孩子的爱。作为一个新生育的母亲，宫缩作为一个母亲，当你的孩子有了痛苦时，作为一个母亲的宫缩是失去的去世了。12年过去了，我仍然很伤心。有些人没有生活经验，希望他们不必经历我所拥有的，并且仍在经历

Nothing in life to find your 18 year old child hanging from a rope in your garage from suicide. I love my parents but they know they have had a life. People that put their parents first have never I repeat never experienced the love of a child. Contractions as a new bearing mother and contractions as a mother in lose when your child has died.12 years on and I am still so sad. Some people have no experience in life and hopefully they don't have to experience what I have and am still going through it.

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到目前为止，对一个父母来说，最具毁灭性的事情莫过于身为父母的人。孩子给了你目标、意义和成就感。如果有人想体验无条件的爱，就要有一个孩子。没有比这更强烈的爱和纽带了。当你失去孩子时，你的身份，目标和生命的意义永远被摧毁。它压碎了你的灵魂，虽然痛苦随着时间的推移而减轻，但它永远不会消失。它伴随着你的余生

By far the most devastating thing that can happen to someone who is a parent. Certainly is #1 to anyone who is a parent. A child gives you purpose, meaning and accomplishment. If anyone ever wants to experience unconditional love, have a child. No stronger love or bond than that. When you lose a child, your identity, purpose and life meaning are destroyed forever. It crushes your soul, and although the pain softens over time, it never goes away. It's with you for the rest of your life.

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人们不知道失去一个孩子是什么感觉。你期望失去你的父母……你应该活得比他们长寿……这就是生活的方式。我们20年前在我们结婚28周年纪念日那天，我们的儿子死于一个酒后驾车的人。我仍然有很多时候我无法忍受。一个人学会了接受。一个人别无选择。这些其他的建议是难以置信的。要真实。我猜这些人没有信仰或者没有宗教信仰来害怕地狱。害怕坐牢，来吧，如果你犯了错，付出时间。如果你杀了人，是真的，你会期待什么…想想你杀了人的家人…这个网站不是真的。做一些调查生活中最大的压力是那些你失去了一个孩子的人。我认为唯一比失去一个孩子更糟糕的事情就是失去两个或更多的孩子。想想第二次世界大战所有被德国人杀害的孩子，甚至连成年人都不想。那些提出其他建议的人，如果你真的想得到一个你想要的孩子……更多

People have no clue what it's like to lose a child. You expect to lose your parent... You should outlive them... That's the way of life. We lost our son 20 yrs ago to a drunk driver on our 28th wedding anniversary. I still have times that I just can't handle it. One learns to live with it. One doesn't have a choice. These otherSuggestions are unbelievable. Be real. I guess these people have no faith or no religion to fear hell. fear of jail, come on, if you broke the law did wrong, pay the time. If youKilled someone, be for real, what do you expect... Think of the family of the person you killed... This site is not for real. Do some research. The biggest stressor in life are those you lost a child. I think the only thing worse than losing a childid to lose 2 children or more. Think of WW2 all the children killed by the Germans.. Not even thinking of the adults. Those people who have made the other suggestions have never had a child if you do think of whick one you'd like ... more

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我还只是个十几岁的孩子，我不打算很快生孩子，但当我长大了有了孩子，我会永远保护我的孩子！即使这意味着晚上在他们的床下检查或者陪着他们直到他们睡着，我不会让他们去参加疯狂的深夜聚会，除非他们是负责任的成年人，而且无论发生什么，我都会一直陪在他们身边！同性恋、女同性恋、变性人等等。因为孩子是一个非常重要的礼物，每个有孩子的人都应该珍惜它。~少女，是的，没错！

I'm only a Teen, I don't plan on having kids any time soon, but when I'm older and have kids, I will always protect my child! Even if it means just checking under their beds at night or staying with them 'till they fall asleep. I won't let them go to crazy late night parties until they are responsible adults, and I will ALWAYS stay by their side no matter what! (Gay, Lesbian, Transgender, etc.) Because a child is a very important gift and everyone who has a child should treasure it. ~ Teenage Girl, Yeah that's right!

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是的，就是这样，我在2008年3月1日的一场车祸中失去了我20岁的儿子。我的世界停止了。我还有两个儿子，6个和15个不得不继续。你们中的一部分死了，我每天睡了16个小时。我知道死亡并不是终点，因为他甜美的灵魂一直陪伴着我，我对耶稣有信心，知道我们会再次在一起，但我想念我美丽的男孩布莱恩·林恩我13岁失去了母亲，27岁失去了父亲，但失去了一个孩子是一个父母所能经历的最糟糕的事情，生活会继续下去，但永远是一个洞

Yep this is it I lost my 20 year old son in a car wreck march 1,2008. My world stopped. I had 2 other sons 6 and 15 had to go on. A part of you dies I slept like 16 hours a day. I know death is not the end cus his sweet spirit stayed with me and I have faith in Jesus and know we will be together again but I miss my beautiful boy Brian Lynn Walden every single day.Lost my mother at 13 and my dad at 27 but losing a child is the worst thing a parent can experience life goes on but a hole forever