失去父母(Losing a Parent)——欧美生活中最糟糕的十件事

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在我21岁生日之前失去母亲是我一生中最艰难的时刻。我现在33岁了，每天都在想她，和她聊天。那天在医院溜出去的我感到很内疚，打电话给我的伴侣，告诉他最新情况……在那段珍贵的时刻，我母亲短暂地清醒过来。我看到她醒了，我穿过走廊，悲伤地闭上了眼睛，我还没来得及道别。内疚感至今仍很强烈。我真希望我能在那里。我经历过痛苦，就像身体上的痛苦。我对不起，妈妈，在你活着的时候，你对你的爱不够。这将永远困扰着我……对我来说，这是人生中最糟糕的事情之一

Losing my Mother just before my 21st Birthday was the hardest moment of my entire Life so far. I am 33 now and still think of and talk to her everyday.The guilt I feel for slipping out that day at Hospital, to call my Partner and give him an update... during the precious moments my Mother was briefly conscious. I saw her awake as I ran through the corridor and sadly her eyes closed before I had the chance to say Goodbye.. guilt is still so strong to this day.I wish I'd been there.I have experienced anguish and it's like physical pain.I'm sorry Mum, for not loving you enough while you were alive.This will haunt me forever... By far (for me) one of the worst things to happen in Life.

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当我父亲过世时，他的家人都在他身边，握着他的手，告诉他我们爱他。他仍然很想念他，但我很庆幸他不是一个人死的。他死的时候知道自己有多爱他

When my Dad passed, he had all his family close around him, holding his hand and telling him that we loved him. He is still very much missed, but I'm just so thankful he didn't die alone. He died knowing just how loved he was.

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每次我父母不带我去出差或去别的地方，我都会哭着睡着，因为我觉得他们会死的

Every single time one of my parents go on a work trip or somewhere else without me I cry myself to sleep because I think they're gonna die.

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我去年失去了我的母亲…仍然没有让她离开。很可能永远不会。她是我第一次呼吸时看到的第一个人，我学会爱的第一个人，最重要的是，那个给了我生命的女人。她照顾我。她爱我就像我爱她一样深。真爱是家庭的爱。失去它就像失去了你的一部分一样……有时候你永远也得不到

I lost my mother last year...still haven't let her go. Most likely never will. She was the first person I looked at when I took my first breath, the first person I learned to love, and most of all, the woman who gave me life. She took care of me. She loved me just as much as I loved her. True love is family love. Losing it is like losing a part of you...sometimes you'll never get it back.

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几个月前我失去了我的父亲，我只有12岁我想念他尽管他有点虐待他是一个慈爱的父亲即使他自杀了。他有抑郁症的疾病。如果你有幸拥有他们，永远爱你的父母。我会说，更糟糕的事情会发生，即使这很难

I lost my dad a couple months ago and I'm only twelve I miss him even though he was a bit abusive he was a loving father even though he killed himself. He had the disease of depression. Always love your parents if your lucky enough to have them. I would say worse things can happen even though this is hard.

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我失去了我的爸爸，我的弟弟和妈妈现在每天都在吵架，整个情况很糟糕。我不想听起来像一个边缘人，但我感到很空虚，好像所有积极的情绪都已经泄露出来，而你只不过是你以前的自己的一个外壳。我爸爸是一个聪明，有趣，不可预测的人，给了我人生的方向感

I lost my dad, my brother and mom now fight daily, the whole situation is awful. I don,t mean to sound like an edgelord but I feel hallow, like every positive emotion has leaked out and you are nothing but a husk of your former self. My dad was a brilliant, hilarious, unpredictable man who gave me a sense of direction in life.

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几个月前我失去了我的父亲，我才12岁，他得了一种叫抑郁症的精神病，自杀了。我相信更糟糕的事情会发生，但我不喜欢分享，所以很多事情都会发生，所以如果你有幸有任何晨曦，就永远爱你的父母

I lost my dad a couple months ago I'm only twelve he had a mental illness called depression and killed himself I believe that worse things can happen though and I don't like to share so just a lot can happen so always love your parents if you are lucky to have any - morgs

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这对任何人来说都是最糟糕的事情，除了死，我的意思是你父母把你养大，听到他们死了，就像被折磨和送进集中营一样！这也适用于你非常爱的其他亲戚和宠物

This is easily the worst thing that will ever happen to anyone besides dying. I mean your parents raised you and hearing them die is like being tortured and sent to a concentration camp! This also applies to other relatives that you loved very much and pets.

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我失去了我的双亲，我才11岁。这种感觉不太好，你意识到当你长大后，你不会有任何人离开，除非你有一个兄弟姐妹，我没有。唯一要说的是告诉你的父母你爱他们，而你还可以

I've lost both my parents and I'm only 11. The feeling isn't good and you realize that when you grow up your not going to have anyone left unless you have a sibling, which I don't... The one thing I have to say is tell your parents you love them while you still can

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我为你的父母感到很抱歉，希望你的新父母会照顾你，如果你有一个-mumbiz01

I feel so sorry for your parents, hoping your new parents will take care of you (If you have one) - Mumbizz01