欺负者欧美孩子讨厌上学的十大原因在欧美孩子讨厌上学的十大原因中排名第2名。

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有一次，这个7年级的学生在公园欺负我，我试图避开他的路，但他会监视我，拿走我的零食和书.我学的是武术，很快我就成了黑带.我向7年级的学生发起了一场搏斗，周围的人都在看.那个恶霸想把我打倒，但他没打中，我就在他脸上踢了一脚.他真的翻了一个跟头，他在朋友面前丢脸了

One time this 7th grader was bullying me at the park, And I tried to avoid walking his way but he would just spy on me and take my snacks and books. I studied Martial Arts, and soon I was a black belt. I challenged the 7th grader to a fight and the whole neighborhood watched. The bully tried knocking me down, But he missed and I did a flip kick right to his face. He actually did a somersault, and he got embarresed in front of his friends.

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当我大约12岁的时候，我看到另一个班上的一群孩子（白痴），他们站在那里用拳头打其他6-7岁的孩子，他们开始哭，一些孩子开始流血，所以我走到他们身边试图阻止他们，当我这样做的时候，他们拿走了我的脸把它砸到砖墙上，我摔断了鼻子，脸上满是血，一条血河顺着我的脸流下来，我开始哭，然后那些小混蛋跑掉了，但这还不是最糟糕的事情，最糟糕的是一个老师站在离那东西15-20米远的地方，根本没注意到，老实说，家庭作业绝对应该是2级，因为它压力太大了，会把你带回家，但是没有什么能比得上这个——萤火虫

When I was about 12 Years old, I saw a bunch of kids (idiots) in the other class that where about 13-14 Years old standing punching other kids that where about 6-7 years old in to the hard brick wall so they started crying and some of them started bleeding, so I of course walked to them and tried to stop them, when I did that they took my face and smashed it in to the brick wall so I broke my nose and my face was filled with Blood and a river of blood started running down my face and I started crying and then those little jerks ran away, but that was not even the worst thing, no the worst thing was that a TEACHER was standing about 15-20 meters away from the thing not paying ANY attention, in all honestly homework definitely should be the #2 because it's so stressful and brings the hell home to you, but Nothing can compare to this - FireflyNeville

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三个多月来，我被一群欺负的告密者欺负了！他们是地球上最卑微、最恶心的生物之一。他们认为只要有可能就结伙攻击我，大喊令人难以置信的粗鲁和有辱人格的侮辱和死亡威胁。我们还有一个供应老师，她显然对我有两极情感，但她决定以某种方式让我的所有班级都反对我，并删除了我所有的证据当我把舞蹈和游戏室的约会搞混了，把我绑在一起，让我看起来尽可能的坏。我想毁了学校。最疯狂的是，这些人中的一些人曾经是我的朋友，但是因为新的iPhone或者别的什么东西把学校从监狱变成了一个地狱。我永远找不到指导顾问，我父母想得到证据的想法完全破灭了，正如我之前提到的，我的班级继续着他们的虐待狂欺凌。我真的认为我经历了人类历史上最严重的欺凌，还有……更多

I was bullied by AN ENTIRE CLASS OF BULLY SNITCHES FOR OVER 3 MONTHS! They are some of the lowest, most disgusting creatures on planet earth. They think it is okay to gang up on me whenever they can, shouting incredibly rude and degrading insults and death threats. We also had this supply teacher who is CLEARLY BIPOLAR TO ME, but she decided to turn all my class against me somehow and deleted all of my proof of my class's heinous actions when she took my tablet in class when I mixed up the dance and games room dates and tied to make me look as bad as possible. I wanted to destroy the school. The insane part is, that some of these people were my friends once, but were sold out for the new iPhone or something to turn school from prison to a living hell. I can never find the guidance counselor, my parents idea of getting proof was ruined, as I mentioned before and my class went on with their sadistic bullying. I honestly think that I lived through the worst bullying in human history and ... more

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我个人不在乎别人怎么看我，也不在乎别人怎么看我，只要这种欺凌行为没有延伸到身体层面。这确实是学校的主要问题之一。由于欺凌的范围如此之大，几乎没有什么办法可悲的。在我以前的学校里，曾经有过这样的案例被欺负的被停职了，而不是被欺负的。那，就在那里，很明显是愚蠢的。如果你要反击，如果有人打你，你将是被停职的人，你将是每个人憎恨的人，你应该是错的，而不是挑起冲突的人，是你。这就是我们教育制度的问题所在。他们认为双方都要为冲突负责，而几乎99%的时间里只有一个参与者负责

I personally do not care for what others think of me or how they view me, as long as the bullying does not extend to a physical level. This truly is one of the main problems with schools. There is hardly anything that can be done about it sadly due to how vast it is. There have been cases at previous schools of mine where the person who was bullied got suspended instead of the bully. That, that right there, is plain down right stupid. If you were to fight back if someone were to punch you, YOU would be the one who got suspended, YOU would be the one who everyone hates, YOU would be the one at fault. Not the person who started the confrontation. YOU. That is what is wrong with our educational system. They believe that both parties are responsible for the confrontation, when almost 99% of the time only one participant is responsible.

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阻止欺凌行为需要大家共同努力。你并不真的希望家长/管理者独自解决所有欺凌问题。需要做的是制定一个计划，引导学生完成解决问题的过程，让他们在成年人的指导下帮助解决欺凌情况。说起来容易做起来难，我知道。似乎最受欺负的人都是孤立的人。那些没有朋友的学生。也许他们害羞，内向，反社会。不管什么原因，欺负者倾向于欺负那些没有支持网络的学生。欺负者实际上是弱者。你看不到他们欺负与他们同等力量的人。他们欺负那些他们能够支配的人，而这些人几乎没有抵抗力。当然，欺负者是不可能存在的，没有他们的促成者待命，只是看着欺凌行为发生，不要说或做任何事情来阻止它。太多的时候他们…更多

Stopping bullying behavior needs to be a shared effort. You don't really want parents/administrators solving all of the bullying issues alone. What needs to happen is to have a plan where students are guided through a solution process, where they can help resolve the bullying situation with guidance from adults. Easier said than done, I know. It seems that the people that are bullied the most are isolated individuals. Those students who don't have friends. Perhaps they are shy, introverted, anti-social. Whatever reason, bullies tend to bully those students who don't have a network of support. Bullies are really the weak individuals. You don't see them bullying people that are their equal in terms of strength. They bully those who they can dominate with as little to no resistance. Of course bullies couldn't exist with out their enablers. People who standby and just watch bullying behavior happen and don't say or do anything in an effort to stop it. Too often they ... more

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其实我并不经常被欺负，但最近这两个男孩一见到我就叫我“emo”，把我课堂上的演讲全毁了，还羞辱了我。我正在做报告的时候，他们开始朝我扔纸，大喊“emo！”“回去割你自己！”等等，我甚至没有注意到他们这样做，因为我在做演讲的时候太紧张了，以至于我不知道我周围的环境，但是我的一个朋友告诉我这件事，知道他们这么做的感觉很不好。老实说，读到这篇文章中一些比我糟糕得多的评论，我感到非常抱歉！既然我知道了被欺负是什么滋味，我会努力为任何一个被欺负或被排斥的人挺身而出。—就在这里

I actually don't get bullied very often, but lately these two boys have been calling me "emo" whenever they see me, and totally ruined my presentation in class and humiliated me. I was giving my presentation when they began throwing paper at me and shouting "EMO! " and "Go back to cutting yourself! " Etc. I didn't even notice them doing this because I was so nervous giving my presentation that I wasn't aware of my surroundings, but one of my friends informed me of this and it didn't feel good knowing that they had done that. Honestly, reading some of the comments in this post with situations that are MUCH worse than mine, I feel so sorry! Now that I know what it is like to be bullied, I will make an effort to stick up for anyone who is being bullied or is an outcast. - justhereforonething

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学校里的每个人都会指出我有多丑，比如说我长痘痘，说我两头分叉，还叫我化个妆，这样我看起来就不像男人了。有一个人，每当他在课堂上或走廊里看到我，当他看到我的时候，他表现得非常厌恶，假装呕吐，然后跑开了。声音校长和我们谈过，让他停下来，但他从来没有这样做。我在六年级时感觉很好，但是在七年级的时候，我变得很不安全，甚至不能忍受看着自己的脸。这就像突然之间，关于你自己的每一个细节都很重要。我要上八年级了，整个夏天我都很痛苦。我希望今年的情况会有所改变。-冰棍

Everyone at my school points out how ugly I am, like calling me a pimple face, saying I have split ends, and telling me to put makeup on so I don't look like a guy. There's this one guy, and whenever he sees me in class or in the hallway, he acts so disgusted when he sees me he pretends to gag and then runs away. The voice principal talked with us, and told him to stop, but he never did. I felt fine in 6th grade, but in 7th grade I became really insecure and couldn't even stand to look at my own face. It's like all of the sudden every little detail about yourself matters. I'm going into 8th grade, and this whole summer I've been miserable. I hope things change this year. - Popsicles

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必须是第一名。我班上的女生讽刺性地打电话来羞辱我，孩子们打我，让我为我没做的事情惹麻烦，然后结伙对我，在情感上辱骂我，直到我快要哭出来。如果我甚至试图还击，我会被踢到内脏，被嘲笑，甚至更严重的侮辱。两个孩子曾经孵化出一个成功的计划让我陷入困境，然后知道我不能对他们做任何事，就对我嗤之以鼻，到我家来羞辱我，把我的桌子围起来，把它推到墙上，把我的指节弄断，走到我面前，对我进行情感上的虐待，直到我快要哭出来一个老师把我和班上的另一个女孩一起带走，让全班的人都嘲笑我。猫咪挖苦我，在走廊里羞辱我。每天午饭时，4个男孩都会侮辱我，直到我想哭，偶尔也会向我扔东西。我太害怕公开了…更可怕了。对不起。-旺基杜德98，但事实是…人们没有被激怒就不会做任何事。下次，想想你做了什么导致了现在的局面。-像我们一样

NEEDS TO BE NUMBER ONE. Girls in my class sarcastically cat call and humiliate me, kids beat me up, get me into trouble for stuff I didn't do, and gang up on me, emotionally abusing me until I'm on the verge of tears. If I even attempt to fight back I'll get kicked in the gut, laughed at, or insulted even more badly. Two kids once hatched a successful plan to get me in trouble, and then knowing that I couldn't do anything to them, snitched on me, went up to my house to humiliate me, surrounded my desk and pushed it against the wall with me between the 2 surfaces, cracked my knuckles, walked up to me and emotionally abused me until I was on the verge of tears. My pathetic excuse of a teacher shipped me with another girl in my class and got the whole class to laugh at me. Girls cat called me sarcastically and humilated me in the hallways. Everyday at lunch, 4 boys would insult me until I felt like crying, and would occasionally throw things at me. I was so scared to be out in the open ... more That's horrible. I'm sorry. - WonkeyDude98 But the truth is... people don't do anything without being provoked. Next time, think about what you've done to cause the situation at hand. - likus

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所有的学校都说“不要欺负人”。他们实际上什么也没做。很可悲的是，你看的那些电视节目都告诉你要告诉家长或老师。但是家长什么都不能做，他们不去上学，学校里甚至没有人在乎。我妹妹在辅导员办公室（我不记得为什么）和当她离开时，她无意中听到一个男孩告诉他的辅导员他被欺负了。辅导员说“下次再发生就告诉我们吧。”然后男孩说“你上次告诉我了。”我妹妹还没来得及听到其他对话就走了。还有，我学校的一个女孩自杀了，学校什么也没做他们只关心自己的名誉，所以他们试图掩盖。她的朋友说他们不认为她受到欺凌，但他们不确定。她没有留下遗书。什么都没有。没有调查，也没有什么。我认识的是一个女孩！他们不在乎。可惜她自杀了！如果你在学校里告诉一个成年人，那就不会在乎哪一个是不体谅和难以置信的！：（他们只在乎钱，这不会给他们带来任何好处！-影迷

All schools say is "Don't bully." They don't actually do anything about it. It's sad because all those T.V. shows you watch tell you to tell a parent or teacher. But a parent can't do anything. They don't go to school. And no one in the school even cares. My little sister was in the counselor's office (I don't remember why. ) and when she was leaving she overheard a boy tell his counselor that he was being bullied. The counselor said "Just tell us next time it happens." and then the boy said "You told me that last time." My sister left before she could hear the rest of the conversation. Also, a girl in my school COMMIT SUICIDE and the school didn't do ANYTHING. They just care for their reputation, so they try to cover it up. Her friends said that they don't think she was being bullied, but they weren't sure. She didn't leave a suicide note. Nothing. No investigation was ever launched or anything. And it was a girl I knew! They don't care. Pity that she committed suicide! If you tell an adult at school, that won't REALLY care which is inconsiderate and UNBELIEVABLE! :( All they care for is money and that won't get them anywhere! - ShadowSwashy

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欺负人是可怕的。在中学里，你被迫去健身房。大多数孩子根据运动或成绩来判断，有时人们会因为欺凌降低他们的自尊而沮丧。尤其是在中学。在中学，你把那些还没有达到成长高峰的孩子们和占了一半运动队的巨人们放在一起。巨人们会取笑小孩子们，导致可怕的事情发生。这已经变得非常糟糕，人们不得不制定程序来试图摆脱它，但它永远不会奏效。如果我能回到过去，我会阻止第一个恶霸开始可怕的趋势；

Bullies are horrible. In middle school you are forced to take gym. Most kids judge based on sports or grades, and sometimes people get depressed because of bullies lowering their self-esteem. Especially in middle school. In middle school, you are putting kids that haven't hit their growth spurt with the giants who take up half the sports teams. The giants will make fun of the small kids causing horrible things to happen. This has become so BAD that people have had to make programs to try to get rid of it, but it never works. If I could go back in time, I'd stop the first bully from starting the awful trend. show more comments darr;